Love from the abuelas

Mija, it’s not supposed to be this hard. This isn’t what we wanted for you. You keep taking up more and more and more, without putting anything down! Slow down. It’s okay to stop. In fact, this is way too much for one person.

Give yourself some grace. You’re tired, burnout, and disappointed because you’re taking on more than you need. One thing at a time, and only if you need to or love it.

We used to have villages and do things in community. What you’re doing is great, just don’t put it all on yourself. Find a neighbor or friend you trust and share it - the joy, burden, work, tears, laughter, wisdom, and fears. That’s the one thing we knew - how to lean on our community. And if you think you don’t have one, call it in and we’ll help you find them.

We’re always here for you. And you’re doing great, you really are mijita.